For Married Couples

I have a brilliant idea for all of us married people out there. This is for all of us married people that have ever had an argument or fight with our spouse. Since we all from time to time have spats with our spouses (if you don't somethings not right!! :)) I have a perfect solution. 1st of all make sure your kids are in the bed for the night or taking a nap, then both of you go to your bedroom, take all your clothes off, hold hands, pray, and hug. Now after doing that see if you still want to fight. I bet you anything you will skip the fight and go straight to the makeup part. If after taking all these steps and you still want to fight, put your clothes back on, grab your bible, tell your spouse you will be back and go have a heart to heart with Jesus. Once this is done come back to your spouse and repeat the process. More times than not I bet that fight won't happen and if it does, it will be so little that you be able to talk it out in the arms of your spouse. Makes perfect since to me.
In all seriousness though if you do have a fight or argument with your spouse, be very quick to apologize. Also make very sure you don't fight in front of your children, because they usually think they had something to do with causing the fight. If you do happen to fight in front of your children again very quick to apologize to your spouse and to your children and reassure your children that they had nothing to do with the fight.

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